Cute but Psycho.. But Cute

Us borderlines might be a little unstable, crazy, and psychotic, but we can also be pretty fucking cute with a dope personality. I've talked a shit ton about all of the negative sides of BPD so now I'm going to talk about the positives! Yayyy, finally.

Even though I can be difficult and I've made a lot of mistakes, I'm working on believing that I'm still worth it. I am learning that being emotional isn't always a bad thing. At times, I do see the good qualities in me. Most days, I'm a very caring and thoughtful person. I have many sides, but I believe that one is the one that shows the most and the one that is most true to who I really am. Once I care for you, I am there for you 100%. I will put great effort into friendships/relationships. I'll do cute things for you. I'm loyal and I love hard no matter what. I won't give up on you; I'm a ride or die. Often times I hate this disorder and feel insecure about it, but I also know that it's the reason that I'm so passionate about what I love.

Here are the positive traits of those with BPD:

Compassionate and empathetic- Many of us are able to empathize and feel compassion very easily. We have greater insight of others; we're good at reading expressions and emotions. We are easy to relate to and talk to, free of judgement.

Curious- Many of us are curious about anything and everything. We like to learn. We take interest in others and in their interests.

Passionate and emotional- Most of us feel intense passion when we find something/someone we care about.

Spontaneous- Many of us like to live in the moment. YOLO

Intense- All of us feel intensely and fully experience life- the good & the bad, the highs & the lows.

Protective- Many of us are protective over what matters to us.

Creative- Many of us are creative thinkers, adding emotion and expression into music, art, performance, writing, careers, etc.

Insightful- Many of us draw on painful experiences. It might take time but eventually we become more self-aware and want to improve.

Hopeful- Many of us don't want to give up the fight so we keep pushing forward.